For Couples Who Have Tried Everything to Stop Arguing

“30 Years of Marriage Taught Me these 5 Simple Habits to Finally Stop Arguing”

And I've Packaged this Wisdom Up in a Short, 2 Hour Audiobook You Can Listen to On Your Phone

I Wish I Had Known this 30 Years Ago When I First Got Married.

When I got married, I had no idea how to communicate with my wife in a way that creates connection instead of strife and anxiety. No one teaches that to you.

I had to experience a lot of heartache and pain (and so did my wife) to finally discover how to stop arguing and start connecting in our conversations. And in this audiobook I teach you how connect more and argue less.

David Frey

Founder, MarriageAdvice.com

“This Audiobook Is for You If are Sick of Arguing But Can’t Seem To Stop”

When I got married, I had no idea how to communicate with my wife in a way that creates connection instead of strife and anxiety. No one teaches that to you.

I had to experience a lot of heartache and pain (and so did my wife) to finally discover how to stop arguing and start connecting in our conversations.

“Each Angry Argument Chips Away at Your Marriage Until Nothing is Left”

Painful criticisms, hurtful blaming, cruel name calling, terrifying yelling and then days of stonewalling wear on your marriage. Deep wounds are inflicted during your fights that are increasingly hard to recover from.

Eventually, you'll have so much resentment for your spouse that you'll want to give up and call it quits.

“Not Only are You Suffering, But Your Children are Being Deeply Wounded.”

If you have children, your constant fighting is teaching them with every argument, how to treat their future spouse. Children carry forward the habits of their parents.

Every time they hear you yell and see you angrily arguing, it’s being recorded in their brain, and becoming a part of them.

“It Doesn't Have to Be that Way! There is Hope. There Is a Way to Stop It.”

I know you’ve tried. I know you’ve worked at it. And I know that despite your efforts, you keep having destructive arguments. But there IS a way to find peace in your relationship.
  
Focusing and working on just a few important, “keystone” habits can bring stop the arguing and finally create peace in your relationship.

“This $7 Audiobook Reveals These 4 Secrets that Stopped Our Arguing.”

In this Short, 2 Hour Audiobook You’ll Discover these 4 Secrets…
  • Why you argue (Hint: It’s not your fault. You were born to argue).
  • ​A little-known approach to avoid arguing before it even starts (It’s easier to stop it before it starts).
  • ​5 strategies to immediately STOP arguing after it’s started. (Your arguments don’t have to become angry screaming matches).
  • ​A specific system to eventually, stop arguing forever. (This system helps you to form better communication habits.).

“I Will Give You the Exact Words and Phrases to Say in Any Argument.”

In this program, I’ll give you specific things to say, how to say them and when to say them to stop arguing.

I give you specific examples of what to say for each habit I introduce to you. There’s no such as “magic words,” but what I share with you is as close as you can get to it.

“I'll Teach You an Effective Method to Instantly to Calm Yourself Down.”

Reacting defensively after getting triggered is what starts arguments. To avoid arguments, you need to be able to instantly calm yourself down and gain control of your emotions.

In this program, I’ll teach you a simple habit that will immediately calm yourself down so that you can respond with love instead of defensively.

“This Audiobook Allows You to Easily Listen and Learn On the Go.”

No matter where you are at or what you’re doing, you can listen to this mobile audiobook.

You can listen to it while taking a walk, on a run, in the gym or while driving in your car.

You just download the audio app, sign up, log in and press the button.

“This program is Less than 2 hours Long. It's Direct, To-The-Point, No Fluff”

One thing I hate, is getting listening to an audiobook that is 5 hours long and most of it is just fluff.

There is no fluff in this audio program. I get right to the point. There are 15 chapters and each one covers a very specific topic, with specific tactics and specific examples. 

“For the Price of a Hamburger, You'll Learn How to Stop Your Arguments.”

I just checked. A Double Whopper meal at Burger King costs more than this audio program!

How much is your marriage worth? I know it’s worth more than $7. You have so much to gain and so little to lose by investing in this audio program.

“You have a 30 Day, Money Back Guarantee, so there’s NO Risk.”

Reacting defensively after getting triggered is what starts arguments. To avoid arguments, you need to be able to instantly calm yourself down and gain control of your emotions.

In this program, I’ll teach you a simple habit that will immediately calm yourself down so that you can respond with love instead of defensively.
Reacting defensively after getting triggered is what starts arguments. To avoid arguments, you need to be able to instantly calm yourself down and gain control of your emotions.

In this program, I’ll teach you a simple habit that will immediately calm yourself down so that you can respond with love instead of defensively.

“If You Do Not Decide to Purchase this Audiobook I Can Promise You One Thing.

I can promise you that if you do not invest in this, or any other marriage improvement program, you’ll continue to argue and slowly destroy your marriage.

There’s the old saying, if you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got. To change your marriage you have to invest in learning the skills that will save your marriage.  

“Click the Purchase Button Below for a Single Payment of Only $7.”

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Meet David Frey, the Creator of the Finally Stop Arguing Program

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

QUESTION #1 - Who are you and why should I trust you?
My name is David Frey. I live in Houston, Texas with my wonderful wife Ingrid. We've been married for 30 years. We have two adopted amazing children who are now in college. I am the founder of MarriageAdvice.com

My wife and I struggled in our marriage for many years. We both have "Type A" personalities and we clashed a lot. It took us over 20 years to learn how to stop our angry disagreements. 

We discovered that by using just a few simple communication habits, our angry arguments started to fade away, while still getting what we wanted. In this audiobook, I share those specific habits with you. 
QUESTION #2 - You say arguing is not our fault. What do you mean?
It's true! You, your husband and all humans are genetically created at birth to argue. When you were a baby, and you didn't immediately get what you wanted, you started crying.

We will still cry today as adults, but it's masked as anger. But inside, it's nothing more than a cry for understanding, for validation and for love. We cry (i.e. argue) because we have an unmet need.

So just because it's not your fault that you have angry arguments, it IS your fault if you don't take steps to fix it. 
QUESTION #3 - We've been arguing for so long now that I have deep emotional wounds that cause me to get quickly get triggered at the smallest things. How is your audiobook going to work for me?
First of all, I'm sorry that you've had to go through so much verbal and emotional abuse. And those emotional scars are real and will not easily go away. It will take time to build back mutual trust and admiration.

But the first step is to stop the hemorrhaging. You have to stop the sword that continues to slice through your hearts. 

What I teach in this audiobook is a beginning. It's a simple first step in your recovery. When you stop arguing, it will bring you to a place where you can begin to really talk to each other and be vulnerable with each other. 

The genesis of any argument starts with your interpretation of your spouse's behavior. So when your relationship is in a bad place, your natural, genetically installed human defense mechanism, automatically places a negative interpretation of your spouse's behavior, which triggers you to anger. 

In this audiobook, I talk about how to change the interpretation of the meaning behind your spouse's behavior, so you won't get triggered. If you stop the trigger, you stop the argument. I go into much greater detail on this topic in my audiobook.
QUESTION #4 - My spouse never apologizes when we argue. Even when I feel it's not my fault, I'll apologize but my spouse won't. It leaves me feeling resentment. How will this audiobook help me?
Hopefully, after listening to my audiobook, you and your spouse will be able to avoid having to make frequent apologies to each other. But in the end, there's a couple of important principles to keep in mind.

Principle 1
. Never make an apology with the expectation of receiving an apology. That will only set you up to be disappointed. That is manipulation. If you expect your spouse to return an apology, now you're trying to control their part of the relationship. That's being controlling.

Principle 2 -  You cannot control your spouse. All you should be concerned with is controlling what you can do, You did your part and that's what your responsibility is to the relationship. Learn to control the things you can and have peace with the things you cannot control, which is your spouse's behavior (Usually if you set a good example, your spouse will eventually reciprocate).

Principle 3 - At a separate time, ask your spouse permission to speak with them about something very sensitive to you. (I talk more about this in my audiobook). Verbalize how it makes you feel when your spouse doesn't take responsibility for some issues in the marriage.

Explain the resentment and negative feelings you are experiencing as a result of this. Ask them to please make an effort to better evaluate how they may have been able to handle things differently. And promise that you will as well. Ask for the behavior changes you would like to see. That's all you can do. 

Principle 4 - Change how you're interpreting his non-apologies. Place a different label on it. Assume positive intent. You're spouse is a flawed individual, just as you are. You probably do things that cause your spouse resentment. Have compassion on your spouse's flaws, while still maintaining your dignity. (I talk a lot about this in my audiobook). 
QUESTION #5 - Once I purchase the audiobook, how will it be delivered to me?
The Finally Stop Arguing audiobook is delivered in a mobile app. After purchasing, you'll receive an email that contains instructions on how to download the app. Once the app is downloaded and you sign up with the email that you used to purchase, you'll see the audiobook in the app. This makes it super convenient and simple to access the audiobook.
One Time Payment of Only $7
TRY IT RISK FREE FOR 30 DAYS!
Because I'm so confident that you will experience tremendous results too, we offer a 30-day, 100% money back guarantee.
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